A young man followed me to Thailand to seek Goddess Of Love's help for a relationship. He is rather adorable and energetic.
When we reached the shrine, I asked him, " What would you like to ask ? What are you seeking for ? "
The young man said, " Teacher, I would like to ask Goddess Of Love about my relationship with my mother. "
Goddess Of Love replied, " Your mother loves you very much in actual fact, but you have an impulsive personality and tend to think negatively. You always feel that your mum is unfair towards you. "
The young man nodded his head and said, " Yes, Goddess Of Love is very accurate ! I have always felt that way, I felt that my mum is unfair and she only loves my brother and not me. It makes me wonder if she is really my biological mother. "
Goddess Of Love said, " Both of you are her children, of course she would love you too. Do not keep having that negative feeling that she is unfair and does not love you. She loves you equally much as your brother. "
The young man said, " Is that true ? Equally ? Have I misunderstood my mum ? "
Goddess Of Love replied, " Yes, equally ! Your mum loves you very much. The sacrifices that she has made for you is not any lesser than the sacrifices that she made for your brother. All you have to do is to show her your love, then she will not have the worrying fear that you will go against her. In this way, you will be able to feel your mother's love. "
The young man nodded his head and said, " Ok, I understand ! I believe what Goddess Of Love has said. When I return, I would let my mum know that I love her. "
No matter what kind of love or relationship, it always has got to be a mutual thing. Both parties have to show their affection and care for each other because this is a must to have element, as this can help to create a bond of love. But if you are always on a defensive mode all the time or talking in a harsh manner, all these can trigger a negative feeling to the other party and this will put a strain on the relationship.