A young lady followed me to Thailand to seek Goddess Of Love's help for her relationship and marriage. She was unhappy and looked very troubled and depressed.
When we reached the shrine, I asked her, " What would you like to ask ? What are you seeking for ? "
The girl said, " Teacher, I would like to ask about my marriage. "
Goddess Of Love replied, " You have a bad ending to all your relationships. You made a lot of sacrifices but it always ends in a breakup. If you do not learn how to manage your relationship, you will end up getting hurt over and over again. "
The girl said, " Goddess Of Love, can you please teach me how to manage my relationship ? What is happening ? What have I done wrong ? "
Goddess Of Love said, " Before you go deeper into the relationship or make any sacrifices, you must make sure that the other party loves you as much as you love him. Otherwise, one day, he would leave you when you aren't able to meet to his demands or satisfy him. Then you will be the one suffering the pain. "
The girl nodded her head and said, " I understand, I know what Goddess Of Love is implying. I'll be careful the next time. "
Both parties should have the same goal and starting point, if it is only a one-sided love, then the relationship will eventually fall apart. Therefore, it is best to make sure that it's a good relationship before being too involved in it because ending a relationship can be a long and painful experience.