A man followed me to Thailand to seek Goddess Of Love's help for his relationship and marriage. This guy leads a vibrant and colourful lifestyle.
When we reached the shrine, I asked him, " What would you like to ask ? What are you seeking for ? "
The man said, " Teacher, I would like to ask Goddess Of Love about my relationship. It hasn't been very smooth going. Is there any prospect in this relationship ? "
Goddess Of Love replied, " You are the one that have destroyed your own relationship. You are high and above, you do not feel that you should take equal partnership in the relationship and you do not see the need that both parties should make equal sacrifices, respect and committments towards each other. The other party will not be so foolish to endure such treatment. "
The man replied, " I was merely saying it only but I did not mean it deep down in my heart. "
Goddess Of Love said, " Why did you say it since you do not mean it ? You have offended her and hurt the relationship by saying such harsh words. Nobody can tolerate it. "
The man said, " I understand, I will change. "
Some people will say things on the spur of the moment because of their pride but what they say may not tally with how they feel. By doing so, they will offend and hurt others, and this will affect people's opinion about them. These people will eventually distance themselves from you and the relationship will be broken. What is the point of it ?