A couple followed me to Thailand, to seek Goddess Of Love's help for their relationship and marriage. These two quarrelsome lovers have been squabbling along the way.
When we reached the shrine, I asked them, " What would you like to ask ? What are you seeking for ? "
The lady said, " Teacher, I would like to ask Goddess Of Love about our relationship ? "
Goddess Of Love said, " Both of you are giving in to each other. But most of the time the two of you are unable to endure each other that is why you always end up quarrelling. "
The man said, " She often cannot endure, I am quite ok. "
The lady said, " Yes, we are trying to endure each other, it is very tough. We simply cannot communicate properly, he is always yelling at me, nobody can endure it. "
Goddess Of Love said, " You have both come to the point whereby you can no longer tolerate each other already. Is there any meaning for you to continue this relationship ? Is best that you discuss whether to continue with this relationship or breakup. "
The lady replied with teary eyes, " I love him very much, can't we get along well ? "
The man said, " Do you think there is any meaning in this kind of relationship ? We have to endure each other every day. Are we supposed to be happy in the relationship ? We are making each other suffer instead of happy. "
Goddess Of Love said, " Both of you make the decision, see which path is best for you ! "
When two people are together, there is bound to be conflicts. Each would have their own perspective or ideas. If your commitment to each other is strong enough, you will certainly be able to overcome these little issues. If it is for the sake of the relationship, nothing cannot be solved.