A young man, who is very motivated and career-minded, followed me to Thailand to seek Goddess Of Love's help for his relationship and marriage.
When we reached the shrine, I asked him, " What would you like to ask ? What areyou seeking for ? "
The young man said, " Teacher, I would like to ask about my relationship ? "
Goddess Of Love said, " Both of you are spying on each other every day. Isn't that tiring ? "
The young man's face turned green and pale, he nodded his head and said, " Yes, Goddess Of Love has said it right ! That is absolutely how I felt ! "
Goddess Of Love said, " Just tell her the truth, if you do not love her make it clear to her otherwise the two of you would not be happy. "
The young man said, " Goddess Of Love is absolutely right ! I do not love her. I have hinted to her before but I do not know if she got my hint or was she just acting dumb? "
Goddess Of Love said, "She understood it, she was just acting stupid. You must say and explain it to her very clearly. "
The young man nodded his head and said, " Yes, I understand ! I will talk to her about it. We would not even be able to continue as friends if we were to go on like this. "
A lamp will never brighten if it is unlighted, words will never be clear if unspoken. If things are not clarified, it will leave uncertainty and doubts on one's mind. Are both parties willing to continue with the relationship or are they too tired to go on with it. Therefore, it is be best to make clear the situation and give each other an answer.