A young guy followed me to Thailand to seek Goddess Of Love's help for his relationship and marriage. He is adorable, at times a little childish but rather sensible for his age.
When we reached the shrine, I asked him, " What would you like to ask ? What are you seeking for ? "
The young chap said, " Teacher, my relationship with my girlfriend has reached a deadlock though we have known each other not long. We seem to be having conflicts, will we overcome this hurdle soon ? "
Goddess Of Love said, " The young lady is too spolit and self-centred. She is inconsiderate, so it wouldn't be easy getting along with her, it would be very tiring. "
The young chap nodded his head and said, " Yes, I find her very hard to get along, everything must be done according to her likes, her wishes and her mood. Her liking varies constantly, she has lots of changes. "
Goddess Of Love said, " That's her personality, only her parents can endure. She's the only daughter in the family so all the family members love her very much. "
The young chap looked very troubled, he said, " Yes, she is the only daughter, so her parents and brothers loved her dearly. I actually doted on her too, but I find that she was getting a little too much, so I am rather tired and sick of her. "
Goddess Of Love said, " It's not that she has changed tremendously, what you are seeing now is actually her true personality, what she portraited in the past was just a camouflage of her true self and over time her true colours were revealed. "
The young chap nodded his head and said, " Yes, I feel that this is her true colour and she is not bothered about what others think of her. Sometimes she would react with a black face which leaves me in a difficult situation as I do not know how to explain to people. "
Goddess Of Love said, " Just talk to her nicely and try and highlight the issues to her. Whether she accepts or not, that would depend on her. "
It will be good if you can highlight to your friends their mistakes when you discover signs that they are on the wrong track. If they have developed bad habits, kindly point it out to them so that they can improve themselves. Then, that will depend on them whether they want to listen to your advice or not.