愛的教育_泰國愛神_泰國旅遊

一個小男生跟我到泰國,這個小男生年紀不大,卻很成熟,有時候還是會露出稚嫩的一面,很可愛,這次跟我到泰國求愛神,求感情、求姻緣。

到了愛神那裡,我問他:「你想問什麼?你想求什麼?」

小男生說:「老師,我跟我女朋友遇到了瓶頸,我們才認識沒多久,但我們卻已經有摩擦,這是磨合期嗎?我希望沒多久就會過了。」

愛神說:「那個小女生太嬌生慣養了,她什麼都以自己為主,不會去想到別人,所以,跟她相處起來,會很辛苦。」

小男生點點頭說:「對對,我就是覺得跟她相處很辛苦,要一直去迎合她的喜好,而且,還必須按照她的情緒來走,她現在喜歡,不等於等一下也會喜歡,變話太大。」

愛神說:「她的個性,只有她的父母會包容她,她是獨生女,家裡都很寵她。」

小男生苦惱地說:「對,她是獨生女,爸爸媽媽還有哥哥都很寵她,我原本也很寵她,但發現她越來越變本加厲,我真的快受不了了。」

愛神說:「她其實不是變本加厲,是她之前給你看到的她,是裝出來的,但,裝是裝不久的,一下子就會露出破綻的,慢慢的就會原形畢露,你就會發現她的真正性格。」

小男生點點頭說:「對,我也覺得她現在給我看到的才是她真正的性格,她也不會在意別人的看法,就大咧咧擺著臭臉,我有時候都不知道該怎麼跟別人解釋。」

愛神說:「你就跟她好好談談,有時候是必須要教育她的,該教育的還是要教育,聽不聽就看她了。」

面對自己身邊的人,發現不對勁的地方,如果是真正的好朋友,那就必須要盡到做朋友的義務,該說的話、對的話,就要跟對方勸說,改不改,聽不聽,另一回事;說了,是我們幫助她,是我們的責任,不說,任由她這樣下去,姑息養奸,放縱她讓她的性格傷害彼此傷害她自己,就是我們的不對了。


A young guy followed me to Thailand to seek Goddess Of Love's help for his relationship and marriage. He is adorable, at times a little childish but rather sensible for his age.

When we reached the shrine, I asked him, " What would  you like to ask ? What are you seeking for ? "

The young chap said, " Teacher, my relationship with my girlfriend has reached a deadlock though we have known each other not long. We seem to be having conflicts, will we overcome this hurdle soon ? "

Goddess Of Love said, " The young lady is too spolit and self-centred. She is inconsiderate, so it wouldn't be easy getting along with her, it would be very tiring. "

The young chap nodded his head and said, " Yes, I find her very hard to get along, everything must be done according to her likes, her wishes and her mood. Her liking varies constantly, she has lots of changes. "

Goddess Of Love said, " That's her personality, only her parents can endure. She's the only daughter in the family so all the family members love her very much. "

The young chap looked very troubled, he said, " Yes, she is the only daughter, so her parents and brothers loved her dearly. I actually doted on her too, but I find that she was getting a little too much, so I am rather tired and sick of her. "

Goddess Of Love said, " It's not that she has changed tremendously, what you are seeing now is actually her true personality, what she portraited in the past was just a camouflage of her true self and over time her true colours were revealed. "

The young chap nodded his head and said, " Yes, I feel that this is her true colour and she is not bothered about what others think of her. Sometimes she would react with a black face which leaves me in a difficult situation as I do not know how to explain to people. "

Goddess Of Love said, " Just talk to her nicely and try and highlight the issues to her. Whether she accepts or not, that would depend on her. "

It will be good if you can highlight to your friends their mistakes when you discover signs that they are on the wrong track. If they have developed bad habits, kindly point it out to them so that they can improve themselves. Then, that will depend on them whether they want to listen to your advice or not.

 


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李芳鴻老師 - 自小就有神通天賦,從 15 歲開始幫人諮商,一個傳奇的女性,帶著神秘來到這世上,她的手,救贖了多少在人生的翰海遭受滅頂的人!