爆發後的失去_泰國象神_泰國旅遊

一位男士跟我到泰國求象神,求事業、求財。

到了象神那裡,我問他:「你想問什麼?你想求什麼?」

男士說:「老師,我的事業一直都沒有起色,我拜了很多神,也求了很多老師問了很多神壇,一直都沒有改善,我想請象神幫我看看到底怎麼回事?」

象神說:「你沒有什麼問題,你唯一阻礙你事業的問題,就是你的脾氣。」

男士說:「怎麼說?我的脾氣?為什麼我的脾氣會阻礙我的事業呢?」

象神說:「你的脾氣一發出來,不只是傷了對方,你也傷了自己,一方面,把對方對你的所有情份都抹滅了,一方面,讓你自己一次又一次的失去對你好的人。」

男士想了想,他說:「可是我脾氣來的快,去的也快,我一下子就好了,並不會有隔夜仇,我也不會計較的。」

象神說:「這都沒錯,但發脾氣的當下,爆炸就殺死一切了,會滅一切了,對方已經被你的脾氣當下就判死刑了,還什麼隔夜仇,還什麼計不計較?!」

男士說:「這就是對方心胸不夠寬大,人難免會發脾氣,難免會說出衝動的話,如果因為這樣不肯原諒我,那朋友也不用當了,這樣怎麼對彼此信任?」

象神說:「你就用這樣的想法繼續跟人相處,你就一輩子不會有更好的發展,你就一輩子去求神問卜為什麼你不會成功,你自己如果看不透這點,你也不用再問神了。」

男士被堵的啞口無言,卻不知道自己錯在哪裡,更不知道自己問題在哪裡,當下發的脾氣,對彼此之間裂痕已造成,這裂痕將一面完整的鏡子,分隔成兩半,一次一次的裂痕,鏡子到最後一定是碎裂,所以,沒有人會願意幫助他,沒有人會願意留在他身邊給他助力,沒有人會願意挺他當他的夥伴,最後,失去最多的,也是自己。


A man followed me to Thailand to seek Elephant God's blessings for his career and wealth luck.

When we reached the shrine, I asked him, " What would you like to ask ? What are you seeking for ? "

The man said, " Teacher, I don't seem to see any progress in my career although I have prayed to many deities and seen a lot of masters about my luck. Can Elephant God please help me to check and see what is the problem ? "

Elephant God said, " You do not have much problem. The biggest obstacle that is hindering the progress of your career is your temper. "

The man said, " What do you mean ? My temper ? Why is my temper obstructing my career ?

Elephant God said, " Whenever you lose your temper you will hurt people and also yourself. That is because by doing so, you will cause others to have a very bad impression on you. Then eventually you will lose all those people that have been nice and kind towards you. "

The man thought for a while and replied, " My temper comes quickly and goes very quickly too. I do not bear grudges after that, I am not a petty person. "

Elephant God said, " Yes, you are right. But the moment you lose your temper it destroys everything because you showed others your extremely ugly side. What do you mean by not being petty or calculative ? "

The man said, " Then the other party is not being magnanimous enough. It's just natural for a person to lose their temper, throw tantrums or get very annoyed. If these people are not being understanding enough to forgive me, if they are so unaccommodating, then I don't think we should carry on our friendship. "

Elephant God said, " Your relationship and social life will never improve if you were to continue thinking this way. Then you will not be able to receive any help irrespective of who you pray or whoever you consult.

The man was speechless, he did not know where the fault lies and had no clue what he had done wrong. Relationship is fragile, once broken cannot be mended. If he continues to his temper, he would eventually lose all his friends as nobody would be willing to standby him or help him.

 

 


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