A young lady followed me to Thailand to seek Goddess Of Love's help for her relationship and marriage. She is pretty with a pair of big eyes and looks very innocent.
When we reached the shrine, I asked her, " What would you like to ask ? What are you seeking for ? "
The young lady said, " Teacher, can you please help me to ask Goddess Of Love why are my relationships not lasting ? All my relationships lasted for half a year or at most a year. It is not a problem for me finding new boyfriends but the problem is that it does not last. I would like to know the reason, can Goddess Of Love please check for me ? "
Goddess Of Love said. " The fault lies with you, think about it, see if you know what is the reason. "
The young lady said, " Thay are only after my appearance, are they only attracted to my looks ? "
Goddess Of Love said, " No no, think about it again ! "
The young lady said, " Or is it because of my nasty temper ? Always losing my temper ? Some of them said that I have princess sickness, is this the reason ? "
Goddess Of Love said, " This is only a small part of it, think about it again. "
The young lady said, " Or is it because I am sticky, I am not independent, always depending on them ? "
Goddess Of Love said, " Let me tell you, the problem with you is that you are very self-centred and you always speak in a very commanding tone. Every sentence that comes out of your mouth is like a command. How can these guys accept your commands, it's already a blessing if they do not command and order you around. "
The young lady was surprised, she said, " Did I ? I am like that ? Teacher, you tell me whether am I like that ? "
Many people are blinded by their own wrong doings. I supposed it's always harder for oneself to see their own flaws but we have to start reflecting on our own mistakes and correct them. Or we should listen to the advice of our friends or family members, those who have highlighted to us our flaws or the mistakes that we have made. We will see improvements if we are ready to accept and make those changes otherwise we would be making those mistakes over and over again.