當局者迷_泰國愛神_泰國旅遊

一位年輕小女生跟我到泰國,這位小女生長得很漂亮,眼睛大大的,水汪汪的,單純的小女生,這次到泰國要跟愛神求感情、求姻緣。

到了愛神那裡,我問她:「妳想問什麼?妳想求什麼?」

小女生說:「老師,妳給我問愛神,為什麼我交往的對象,都不長久,我男朋友都差不多半年不到一年就分手了,我很容易就能認識新的男朋友,但是,卻交往不久,我很想知道為什麼?愛神給我查看看是否我哪裡有問題?」

愛神說:「問題就在妳身上,妳想一想,看看妳是否能想出來為什麼?」

小女生說:「是因為他們只是因為我的外表,重視的是我的外表嗎?」

愛神說:「不是不是,再想一想!」

小女生說:「還是因為我脾氣不好?都亂發脾氣?有說我有公主病,是因為這原因嗎?」

愛神說:「這只是其中之一,但佔的比例不大,再想一想。」

小女生說:「還是因為我比較黏人,我不獨立,會依賴。」

愛神說:「我跟你說吧!妳的問題就是,妳太過於自我為中心了,妳所說的每一句話,都是命令式的口氣,每一句話從妳口中說出來,都是在命令對方,男人怎麼可能讓妳命令,怎麼可能接受妳的命令,他們不命令妳就很不錯了,哪裡能讓妳這樣頤指氣使的。」

小女生訝異的說:「有嗎?我會嗎?老師妳給我看,我會嗎?」

很多人都是當局者迷,自己的問題自己是看不到的,自己臉上有髒汙,自己是看不到的,所以,必須要藉由照鏡子,也就是每天反省自己,自我檢討,來檢視自己的問題,才能改進,要不然,就要藉由朋友、家人、同事等等的外人,來提醒自己問題在哪裡,才能把問題找出來,改進之後,才會進步,否則,問題永遠在身上,永遠解不開謎底,遇到的困難就會一直輪迴。


A young lady followed me to Thailand to seek Goddess Of Love's help for her relationship and marriage. She is pretty with a pair of big eyes and looks very innocent.

When we reached the shrine, I asked her, " What would you like to ask ? What are you seeking for ? "

The young lady said, " Teacher, can you please help me to ask Goddess Of Love why are my relationships not lasting ? All my relationships lasted for half a year or at most a year. It is not a problem for me finding new boyfriends but the problem is that it does not last. I would like to know the reason, can Goddess Of Love please check for me ? "

Goddess Of Love said. " The fault lies with you, think about it, see if you know what is the reason. "

The young lady said, " Thay are only after my appearance, are they only attracted to my looks ? "

Goddess Of Love said, " No no, think about it again ! "

The young lady said, " Or is it because of my nasty temper ? Always losing my temper ? Some of them said that I have princess sickness, is this the reason ? "

Goddess Of Love said, " This is only a small part of it, think about it again. "

The young lady said, " Or is it because I am sticky, I am not independent, always depending on them ? "

Goddess Of Love said, " Let me tell you, the problem with you is that you are very self-centred and you always speak in a very commanding tone. Every sentence that comes out of your mouth is like a command. How can these guys accept your commands, it's already a blessing if they do not command and order you around. "

The young lady was surprised, she said, " Did I ? I am like that ? Teacher, you tell me whether am I like that ? "

Many people are blinded by their own wrong doings. I supposed it's always harder for oneself to see their own flaws but we have to start reflecting on our own mistakes and correct them. Or we should listen to the advice of our friends or family members, those who have highlighted to us our flaws or the mistakes that we have made. We will see improvements if we are ready to accept and make those changes otherwise we would be making those mistakes over and over again.

 


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分類:泰國愛神
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李芳鴻老師 - 自小就有神通天賦,從 15 歲開始幫人諮商,一個傳奇的女性,帶著神秘來到這世上,她的手,救贖了多少在人生的翰海遭受滅頂的人!