Two sisters followed me to Thailand to seek Goddess Of Love's blessing for their relationship and marriage.
When we were there, I asked them, " What would you like to ask ? What are you seeking for ? "
One of the sisters said, " Teacher, we are seeking for a good partner. We do not have any at the moment. When will our romance luck come ? "
Goddess Of Love smiled and said, " Both of you have been going around all the temples seeking and even asking fortune-tellers trying all ways and means to get help. "
The girl laughed and said, " Is a big problem, we have done all that we can, seeking ernestly and praying hard but to no avail. Why is this so ? "
Goddess Of Love said, " So long as you don't think about it, do not seek, do not go around asking then your romance luck will appear. "
The girls was surprised and said, " Really ? Is it true ? Don't go around seeking and asking then it will come ! "
Goddess Of Love said, " When you go back, try not to pursue it from now on. Don't think, don't seek, don't ask and don't do anything about it. "
The girl nodded her head and said, " Ok ! We will go back and give it a try ! "
The more you want it, the further it will drift. The more you seek, the more you will not get it. The more you mind about it, the more you will lose it. Many a times, things are always the reverse of what we want. The more you yearn for it, the more you won't get it. Just be your normal self, don't take it to heart and let nature takes its course, perhaps things will come naturally to you instead.