寵壞了_泰國象神_泰國旅遊

一對姊妹跟我到泰國求象神,求事業、求財。

到了象神那裡,我問她們:「你們想問什麼?你們想求什麼?」

姊妹說:「老師,我們被爸媽兄長已經逼到快崩潰了,他們真的是我們的魔考啊!」

象神說:「其實,是你們把他們寵壞了!不是他們的問題,是你們的問題!」

姊妹張大嘴的問:「我們的問題?我們每天辛苦工作,供養他們十幾年,買房買車,讓他們衣食無缺,讓他們無憂無慮,每天不愁吃穿,竟然用鬥嘴來打發時間,這是我們的問題?!」

象神說:「從現在開始,斷絕他們的經濟,你們的兄長們,也應該要自力更生了,必須要自己養活自己,一直依靠你們,他們變得無能了!不是你們的問題,是誰的問題?」

姊妹恍然大悟的說:「是!是我們的問題....我們....把他們養成無能了!」

象神說:「你的父母,也把你們當成依靠,這是好事,但,凡事過猶不及,你父母親過度依賴,變成無法解決問題,一點芝麻小事,都可以鬧自殺,不是你們的問題,是誰的問題?」

姊妹已經無言以對....

人的行為,是好是壞,好是教育出來的,壞都是寵出來的!孩子,寵著寵著,就會恃寵而驕;大人,寵著寵著,就會仗勢欺人;人,必須要教育,必須要糾正,必須要導正,必須要訓練,必須要成長,必須要堅強,這些,都是要身邊的人,教育、訓練出來的!不論是父母對孩子,兄弟姊妹之間,朋友同事之間,師長弟子之間,都是互相教學相長的,所有一切,就是要教育,正面的教育!


A pair of sisters followed me to Thailand to pay homage to Elephant God to seek for their career and wealth luck.

When we reached there, I asked them, " What would you like to ask ? What are you seeking for ? "

The sisters said, " Teacher, we are force by our parents until we are going crazy already. They are our biggest test in life."

Elephant God said, " Actually, you have spoiled your parents ! It is not their problem, the problem lies with you ! "

The sisters opened their mouth in shock, then they asked, " Is our problem ? We have been slogging every day, supported them for over ten years, bought them a house, a car an provided them with everything that they needed. They lead a very comfortable life, there is practically nothing for them to worry about at all.

 Elephant God said, " Cut off their allowance, they have to learn to be independent and support themselves. They have relied on you guys too much and become useless already ! If this is not your fault then whose fault is it ? "

The sisters came to their senses and said, " Yes ! It is our mistake... we.. made them incompetent ! "

Elephant God said, " Your parents take you as their pillar of strength, which is a good thing. But they have become over dependent on you guys that they are unable to even settle the simplest problem themselves. They threaten to commit suicide when faced with the slightest problem. If it is not your fault, then whose fault is it ? "

The sisters were both speechless already...

Human's behaviour, if is well-behaved, that is because they have been displined. If it is bad, that is because they have been too pampered. If kids are over pampered, they become very arrogant. And if adults are over pampered they become overbearing. 

 

 

 


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