傻女孩-四面佛與黃大仙-新加坡諮商

這次來新加坡有位傻女孩也來找我諮商,為什麼說她是傻女孩呢?看完她的案例就知道她有多傻了。

這位女孩諮商時,她對我說:「老師,我想要問我的感情,我目前有一位交往的對象,想問問看這個男生好不好?有沒有什麼地方要注意的?」

聽完她的請求之後,過了一會四面佛搖著頭說:「她的男朋友是個有家庭的有婦之夫,這種感情還有什麼好問的?都已經介入別人的家庭造了一堆業障了,還這麼想不開,不願意放手嗎?快點分手吧!還有更好的對象在等著她,別這麼傻。」

她回答我說:「唉~果然什麼都瞞不過神明,我跟他在一起也一段時間了,這中間我也想過跟他要個名分,希望能光明正大的跟他在一起,但我的男朋友叫我等他五年,五年後他就會離婚了,所以我給他機會,我想再等他五年,如果五年到了他還沒離婚,我就會離開他了,但五年的時間也不算短,我也很怕到時候落的一場空,老師,我該不該等他呢?」

我說:「不該等,應該要快點和他分手。」

她神色哀傷的回答我說:「可是我真的很愛他,我很想再給他機會,希望能等到他離婚之後跟我在一起。」

看她如此執迷不悟,大仙搖著頭跟我說:「這真是個傻女孩,既然如此,你跟她說,要她注意別懷孕,因為如果懷孕了,他一樣還是不會離婚的,到時候她自己還得辛苦的去做工來養小孩,千萬不要這麼傻阿!」

完完全全真的就是個傻女孩,四面佛、大仙和我都在搖頭,我們都無言了…


When I was in Singapore, this girl that I counselled, is a little silly and naive. Why did I say that she's silly? You probably know why after reading her case.

When I was counselling the girl, she said to me, "Teacher, I want to ask about my relationship. Currently, I'm dating a guy, I would like to ask if this is a good guy? And what are the things that I should take note?"

Shortly after listening to her request, Four Face Buddha shook his head and said, "Her boyfriend has a family, he's a married man, what is there to ask? She has already got herself involved in other people's family and has committed a heap of karma and yet she cannot let go. Don't you want to let go? Hurry break up! There are better guys ahead waiting for her, don't be foolish."

She replied, "Oh~ seems like there's nothing that we can hide from God. I've been with him for sometime, during this period I did mention to him that I would like to have a status, rather than being in the dark. My boyfriend told me to wait for 5 years, as he would divorce his wife then. That's why I gave him a chance, I thought of waiting for 5 years and if he doesn't divorce by then, I would leave him. However, 5 years is not a short span of time and I'm afraid that I would have waited in vain. Teacher, should I wait for him?" 

I said, "No you shouldn't, should quickly break up with him."

She looked sad and replied, "But I really love him and I would like to give him a chance. I'm hoping to be with him after his divorce."

Seeing that she's so firm with her decision, Tai Sin shook his head and said to me, "This is really a silly girl. In that case, tell her that she has to be very careful and don't get herself pregnant. Because even if she's pregnant, he would not divorce his wife. Then, she wouldbe the one suffering. By then, she has to work hard to support the child, don't be so foolish Ah!"

She's really a silly girl, Four Face Buddha, Tai Sin and I shook our heads, we were speechless ...


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李芳鴻老師 - 自小就有神通天賦,從 15 歲開始幫人諮商,一個傳奇的女性,帶著神秘來到這世上,她的手,救贖了多少在人生的翰海遭受滅頂的人!