When I was in Singapore, this girl that I counselled, is a little silly and naive. Why did I say that she's silly? You probably know why after reading her case.
When I was counselling the girl, she said to me, "Teacher, I want to ask about my relationship. Currently, I'm dating a guy, I would like to ask if this is a good guy? And what are the things that I should take note?"
Shortly after listening to her request, Four Face Buddha shook his head and said, "Her boyfriend has a family, he's a married man, what is there to ask? She has already got herself involved in other people's family and has committed a heap of karma and yet she cannot let go. Don't you want to let go? Hurry break up! There are better guys ahead waiting for her, don't be foolish."
She replied, "Oh~ seems like there's nothing that we can hide from God. I've been with him for sometime, during this period I did mention to him that I would like to have a status, rather than being in the dark. My boyfriend told me to wait for 5 years, as he would divorce his wife then. That's why I gave him a chance, I thought of waiting for 5 years and if he doesn't divorce by then, I would leave him. However, 5 years is not a short span of time and I'm afraid that I would have waited in vain. Teacher, should I wait for him?"
I said, "No you shouldn't, should quickly break up with him."
She looked sad and replied, "But I really love him and I would like to give him a chance. I'm hoping to be with him after his divorce."
Seeing that she's so firm with her decision, Tai Sin shook his head and said to me, "This is really a silly girl. In that case, tell her that she has to be very careful and don't get herself pregnant. Because even if she's pregnant, he would not divorce his wife. Then, she wouldbe the one suffering. By then, she has to work hard to support the child, don't be so foolish Ah!"
She's really a silly girl, Four Face Buddha, Tai Sin and I shook our heads, we were speechless ...