被寵壞的兒女(上)-四面佛與黃大仙-新加坡諮商

這次有位新加坡的好朋友拜託我去新加坡一趟,她說她有一些朋友都有問題想要諮商,希望我能抽空去一趟,想一想好也有好幾個月沒去新加坡了,所以就應這位好友所邀,趁這個月有幾天的空檔,馬上動身前往新加坡,於是,我又再度踏上了新加坡的土地。

到了新加坡之後,首先來找我諮商的是一對父母,這對父母年約40歲上下,有一對六、七歲的兒女,他們今天來找我不為別的,就是專程為這對兒女所來,等一切準備就緒後,我問他們:「請問你們有什麼事情想請四面佛或是黃大仙幫忙的呢?」

爸爸回答我說:「老師,我們這次來找您諮商,主要是要問我這一對兒女的事情,我這對兒女非常的難以管教,我試過了許多方法,不管是軟硬兼施還是威脅利誘,他們依舊把我們兩人的話當做馬耳邊風,實在是讓我們非常頭痛,所以一聽到老師您這次要來新加坡,我們馬上就預約了,希望老師能夠幫幫我們夫妻倆。」

過了一會兒,大仙笑呵呵的說:「呵呵呵,先來說他的兒子吧,他的兒子以前被祖父母帶過一陣子,祖父母帶的時候,非常的溺愛孫子,想要什麼就有什麼,只要孫子一開口,祖父母幾乎都會滿足他,根本就是被寵過頭了,現在要帶回家自己管教,管教的方式差這麼多,小孩子當然無法接受,現在小孩心裡想的都還是祖父母的疼愛,心還留在祖父母那邊,這也就是為什麼這對父母說的話,小孩子完全沒有當一回事,而這部份還只是有形的,另外還有無形的影響,這跟媽媽前夫的祖先有關…(待續)


This time, a good friend of mine, who's a Singaporean asked me to make a trip to Singapore. She said that she has some friends who have some problems and would require counselling, hopefully I can find time and make a trip there. I thought about it, and realised that I've not been to Singapore for several months. So since my friend invited me, I took the opportunity, scheduled a few days and set foot in Singapore again.

In Singapore, this couple were the first to come for my counselling. They were about 40 years or younger and have two kids, six and seven years old. They came to me today, not for anything else, specially to ask about their children. So when everything was ready, I asked them, "What would you like to ask Four Face Buddha and Tai Sin to help you?"

The father replied,"Teacher, we've come specially to ask about our two children. These two kids are really hard to discipline, I've tried many methods, the soft or hard approach, but to no avail. They simply take us for granted, it's really a headache. So when I heard that teacher is coming, I immediately made an appointment, hoping that you'll be able to help us."

After a while, Tai Sin laughed and said, "Well, lets talk about his son first. Previously, his parents looked after his son for some time, so they pampered him a lot and would give into all his requests, therefore, this child has been spoilt. Now that they brought him home, he's unable to adapt to their teaching because he's so used to being pampered. Moreover, another factor is due to some spirits, that has got to do with some ancestors from his wife's first marriage......(to be continued)


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李芳鴻老師 - 自小就有神通天賦,從 15 歲開始幫人諮商,一個傳奇的女性,帶著神秘來到這世上,她的手,救贖了多少在人生的翰海遭受滅頂的人!