This time, when I was in Chongqing, a 40 over years old man came to me for counselling, I asked him, "what do you want to ask?"
He embarrassing asked me, "Teacher, I would like to ask you if I'm destined to have kids of my own. I've been married for many years and we've been trying very hard for a child but unfortunately till now we're unable to have any. We've consulted many western and traditional chinese doctors and have tried many methods but yet it didn't work. The doctors said that we're perfectly healthy, that's why I would like to ask you if I'll be abl to have any children?"
After listening to his story, Four Face Buddha said, "I've already checked it out, he's destined to have his own kids but his deceased grandfather is obstructing it because he was terrible in his younger days. All he did was to eat, play and be merry. Not only that , he also got to know several ladies from those indecent places. So in a fit of anger, his grandfatherchopped off that destiny(to conceive children). His grandfather felt that he was unfilial and was not fit to be people's father because he would definitely not be a good husband and father. Therefore, it's better not to allow him to have any kids instead of letting them suffer.
After listening, this gentleman very embarrassed and said, "When I was young, I didn't learn the proper ways, but that was in my younger days. Now, I've already restrained myself and has rarely set foot in such places anymore. I wonder if there's any way that teacher can help me, so that I can have my own children."
I said, "This is your grandfather's decisions, so you have to go back and ask your grandfather for forgiveness, otherwise, no matter how hard you try, your wife will not be pregnant."
The gentleman said: "Thank you, teacher, I know, I'll go back to seek my grandfather's forgiveness."