外籍傭人-馬來西亞諮商-黃大仙與四面佛

外籍傭人是我這幾年夢寐以求的心願,我不要等我老了在來享受,我要趁我年輕還能動時,來享受,可以過著看電視,而有人做家事的生活,這樣有多好啊!相信很多主婦都和我一樣有著這樣子的心願。

在馬來西亞的國家裡,每一戶人家都可以請外籍傭人,沒有什麼癱瘓的限制也不用去醫院開證明什麼的,只要能提出政府規定的財力證明就可以聘請外籍傭人,真是讓我羨煞。

住在馬來西亞的朋友家第一晚的時候,女主人說:「老師,可不可以問你一個問題,我很困擾,但是我不知道怎麼解決,我只能求助於妳!」我問:「什麼事?」

女主人說:「我這個困擾是很多馬來西亞華人的困擾,就是外籍傭人,實在是太....唉....怎麼說勒!我姐姐家的那個傭人,上個月去跟警衛亂來,結果懷孕了,而我們家的這個傭人,跟郵差亂來,結果也懷孕了,那個誰...家的傭人去倒個垃圾也可以跟開垃圾車的亂來,我們實在很困擾!有的還跟男主人亂來,唉呀!搞的夫妻關係很失和!」

我聽了整個傻眼,我的夢醒了,大仙這時在旁邊說:「妳還會想要請傭人嗎?」我搖頭,連連搖頭,大仙說:「這是人類原始的本能,是無法避免的,請了她,就要為她負責,而這些主人都沒有想到這個問題,只是一味的打壓沒有讓她們紓解,所以才會有這些社會問題出來!」大仙說的是,結果論,我不在想到請外籍傭人了,因為這個問題我無法解決,我們社區沒有警衛,我們的郵差也是來匆匆去匆匆,開垃圾車的更是忙碌,我還是自己做家事吧!


To have a Foreign maid is my dream, I've been wishing to have one these years. I do not  hope to wait till I'm old before I can enjoy myself but rather when I'm still young, can watch TV while there's someone doing the housework! How nice would that be ah! I believe that many women, just like me have this wish.

In Malaysia, a country where every family can employ foreign maids, no restrictions do not verification or any proof to say that this household requires a domestic helper so long as you have the financial resources stated by the government, then you're entitled to hire a foreign maid, it really makes me envy.

My friend that's lives in Malaysia, the first day she said to me "Teacher, can I ask you a question, I'm troubled, but I do not know how to solve it, I can only turn to you!" I asked: "What's the problem?"

The hostess said "This is a very common problem for all the Malaysian Chinese. Foreign maids, it's terrible....ah.... how should I say it! My older sister's foreign maid, last month fooled around with a cleaner, as a result got herself pregnant. My maid fooled around witha postman and got pregnant. That person......with a rubbish cleaner......pregnant. Some even with their boss, caused the husband and wife to have problems!"

I was shocked when I heard that, I awoke from my dream. Tai Sin was by my side, he said "This is human's nature, unavoidable, these employers didn't consider about such problem, they didn't explain to them therefore it has caused a problem to the society. In conclusion, I don't think of employing foreign maids anymore because I'm unable to solve such problems. It's impossible for the country not to have cleaners, postmen etc..Our postmen, rubbish cleaners come and go, I rather do my housework myself!


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